Is your sex life boring? Do you wish your boyfriend would tie your up, gag you, and have his way with you? Every wondered about how to do figging to punish your very naughty lover?

It's been a while since I've gotten to post, since I've been in France (am still there, actually). But that's not why I'm writing. I have recently found some absolutely fantastic websites (not porn) that give how-to guides on S&M, BDSM, or Bondage/Discipline/Sadomasochism. Whatever you want to call it. People blogging, asking questions, doing research, and overall being naughty. It was too good not to share.

Below are some of my favorites:

This relatively new site is by Christian BDSM bloggers (WTF?!) who will be sharing their sexual exploits with us. If you're too chicken to try something wild but have always wanted to, this is your site. Ask them a question, they will try it out for you and get back to you. Click here for more.

This site has great information on how to surprise your honey with some very impressive rope-tying. Easy step-by-step instructions are geared toward even the most shy of sex kittens.

Last but not least, this absolutely fantastic blog is all about Sex Advice, including some really great stuff on sex toys that can be used in BDSM, but is certainly not limited to BDSM!

Warning: Try this at home!